Author: Pamela Gort

After two long-term relationships and five years of dating, Pamela Gort, The Lesbian Love Coach, spent years synthesizing the most effective and relevant dating and relationship practices into five easy steps called “Find Her and Keep Her" specifically tailored for lesbians. Using her warm, funny, direct coaching style, Pamela guides single lesbians to fall in love with themselves so they can attract and keep conscious, lasting, and loving relationships.

Myths and stereotypes abound around every major group of people, including lesbian and queer women. Lesbian relationship stereotypes often come up in pop culture and mainstream media. There is always some truth to each one, but it’s not the whole truth. For most people, a stereotype is not true and should be taken with a grain of salt. The most important thing to remember is we are all individuals with our own ideas and programming, and we can change perceptions. With that said, here are some common stereotypes surrounding the lesbian dating scene. Stereotype 1 – Lesbians Move in Together on the…

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Lesbians in a committed relationship may experience a wide range of stressors, including some unique to lesbians, that can impact their relationship. Whether it’s conflicts with your partner or challenges related to family support, societal stigma, finances or intimacy, navigating these issues can be challenging. Fortunately, there are ways to overcome these stressors and maintain a healthy, happy relationship with your partner. In this article, we’ll explore some of the top lesbian relationship stressors and provide practical tips for overcoming them. 1. Communication One of the biggest relationship stressors for any couple is communication. In lesbian relationships, communication can be particularly challenging…

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When two women come together in a romantic relationship, it’s a beautiful thing. The journey to official status can be exciting, nerve-wracking, and filled with uncertainty. Deciding to make your lesbian relationship official is a significant step in your journey as a couple. It is a decision and commitment to be a couple who is serious about their relationship. But it’s natural to have questions and uncertainties about the timing and process of taking this important leap.  This article will guide you through the considerations and provide insights on when and how to make your lesbian relationship official. Let’s dive in! Timing…

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